Flirting Through Light Touches

Flirting through sunshine crosses is one of the most gentle ways to show people you’re serious. But if not done correctly, it does give the bad message.

Whether it’s “accidentally” brushing against your girlfriend’s arm or hand throughout discussion, grazing them on the knees when they are sitting next to you, or lightly playing with their mane, this kind of casual effect is affectionate and hints at interest. ” Passive details are a powerful way to show involvement”, says Wale Okerayi, Lmhc Lpc, a certified mental health counsellor in New York and Texas. ” A light touch on the arm or hand is a great start, but can easily escalate”.

Another casual body language gesture that can signify flirting is gently grazing their thigh or leg. ” This is a more intimate and seductive move”, explains Brown. ” Their leg is more exposed than their arm, so it’s a good place to play with touch”.

If someone is interested in you, they may also subconsciously play with your hair or lips while talking. They might even bite a side of their lip or lick their lips while listening to you talk.